Do you want to be that sort of woman that a man would miss anytime in a relationship?

Add value to your person

Allow a man to pay the price for your love. Even in animal kingdom, the lion fights to proof that he deserves the lioness. Have you witnessed a local fowl going after a hen? men are created to be hunters, the real man takes pleasure in chasing difficult women and getting them. Stop attracting weak men by begging for love; a woman with value and vision is tangible. Men long for women with purpose and boundaries. when a woman beg for love, she is going to automatically becomes the pursuant of love which does not grant the man involved emotional fulfilment. This is the worst thing for any woman in a relationship because she cannot not experience true love.

“BEAUTY IS IN VAIN” when you prioritize an external beauty according to the bible passage in the book of proverbs 31:30. in as much as people believe that beauty attracts, it also fades with time and conditions of life. External beauty attracts interest but does not sustain interest.

women who give a him peace and emotional safety

Men long and tend to miss a woman who created a safe space for him where he could be vulnerable without judgement. A Woman who makes him grow, feel the world around him and contribute in shaping his character and future. what does that mean? Elijah had it rough growing up, each time i was with him, he keeps telling me how he struggles with anxiety, i never interrupted him , never rushed to fix it up or judged him or offered advice- rather i simply thanked him for trusting and confounding in me. Overtime, Elijah started relaxing with me and opening up other areas of fear to me. Not because i have answers to his struggles but because of calmness i created overtime with him which led to the atmosphere where he can express himself. Cultivate gentleness in order to leave a trace of peace around you. Learn to give affirmation by listening without judgement and nurture emotional trust.

woman who believes in him deeply

Every Man loves and misses any woman who consistently reminds him who he could become, especially, when he doubts himself. Naturally, men are more in a competitive world than women. Men has so much aspirations , they desire to conquer levels to reach the top while maintaining their ego. Man wants and miss women who saw the greatness in their future, who acknowledge their potential even when they are no where. Avoid anything that will bring down a man’s ego rather learn to fan his ego. He will miss you whenever the relationship ends if at all by erro.

A woman who balances strength with softness

Every man desires a woman who can stand firm without becoming hard, and shows compassion without becoming passive . She is not afraid to say no when needed, does not shout because the other person shouted, can stand tough conversations with clarity and conviction, sets healthy boundaries without guilt. A woman who listens with empathy, who offers comfort before correction, encourages and emotionally present, gives grace even when sure that he is wrong. Firmness says, ”i love you but i will not compromise to keep you comfortable”.

A woman who speaks with both grace and Truth

Every man misses and cannot resist a woman with the ability to challenge without crushing. Who has the ability to build up someone while avoiding behaviours that may encourage dependency or irresponsible actions. A woman who seeks understanding over hope even in hard conversations. A woman with grace, ”i am in your team, even when we’re working through hard things”. A woman who names the issue with clarity and care instead of avoidance in times of misunderstanding. A woman of truth says, ”because i value you, i wont overlook the things that matters”.